My ramen expired
“우린 여름을 잃었어
서로를 잃었을 때
내 계절을 돌려줘
Oh, it’s all gone
Translation “We lost the summer when we lost each other Eternal winter… I just miss ya…”
My ramen expired a few weeks ago, not the regular kind, but the rare one I can’t easily find in my city. I kept saving it, waiting for the “right” moment to enjoy it. But when I finally checked, it had already expired. I was waiting for a good moment or day so I could enjoy it, but now the moment was gone, or you can say it had expired for me.
It got me thinking how we wait for the right moment, but time is far gone just thinking about it. It was a moment when I thought there would always be more time, until the clock betrayed me. Most of the time, it's procrastination, thinking you have plenty of time and assuming you can do it at the last minute, only to regret it later.
“I traded today for tomorrow, and tomorrow never came.”
It’s like Hope Bias, psychologically, we keep thinking a better or righter moment will come. This hope keeps us waiting, even if the current chance is already the best one. Our brain tricks us into believing waiting is safer, but in reality, hesitation can create more regret than action.
Ask yourself how much time you have waited rather wasted just thinking rather than doing.
The Fear of Regret, in which the mind often magnifies the pain of a wrong choice. So, we delay, thinking “not yet.” Ironically, that delay leads to regret anyway. I am not suggesting taking life decisions without a thought, just know that after it’s too late you will regret it, and its okay if you let a good opportunity go if needed.
Cause even if the ramen was expired, I did eat it. {Warning: Do not eat expired food, it may look fine, but it can harm your health. Always check dates and stay. I don’t recommend eating any expired food. It tasted mostly normal, but my stomach did hurt later on. Just like that, it’s never too late, time and deadlines can't bound you there will be default as you lost your first chance, but nothing is easy in life. If you just do it, a lot of growth and new experiences will come in your life, even if you don’t take all the opportunities, you can do what is best for you.
So go and check if your ramen has expired yet or not, because it’s never too late.
Love how you notice things that might not matter but mean a lot.
ReplyDeleteIt was an awesome read!
Looking forward to more such posts from you!!
Love,
Ash
"I traded today for tomorrow, and tomorrow never came” really stayed with me, it captures the heart of procrastination perfectly. This was such a beautiful and relatable read. I love how you connected something as ordinary as ramen with something as profound as time, hesitation, and regret.
ReplyDeleteAmazing writing skills. Enjoyed reading it
ReplyDeleteWriting is too Good, wish I knew more about Ramen, gotta taste it soon.
ReplyDeleteAn awesome article expressed it in a very interesting way.. Loved it
ReplyDeleteA very well articulated piece....keep it up. Devang
ReplyDeletethis was so relatable; waiting for something to change in a constant life so it to gets better by its own, this article was a great reminder to create opportunities for yourself. Love thiss!!
ReplyDeleteCreative thought on an expired ramen 😂
ReplyDeleteThis is such a well-written blog and a really powerful way to think about things. It reminds me of the classic paradox of waiting for the 'perfect sample' or the 'perfect conditions,' only to find the opportunity has passed. You’ve inspired me to be more decisive. Thanks for this—and please stop eating expired food!
ReplyDeleteVery beautifully written article and I am extremely glad to state that the importance of doing things at the right time could not have been explained so well with any other anecdotes or examples. Keep it up!!
ReplyDeleteLove this article- really enjoyed this one, keep it up 👍
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS SOOO SOOO GOODDDDD!!!!!! it is as if you just pulled out a part of reality and fit sense and your magic into it and pushed it right back. no, really, this is a greattttt way to thing about the stuff we just keep for the better days. And for someone like me who does that a lot, it is an eyeopener. and ofc that doesn't mean we eat expired ramen *side eyeing and sighing* , and suffer later. anyways, now waiting has begin again the next one!!!!
ReplyDeleteOne of the best articles I have read .. great sweetheart.. keep it up.. with lots of love to “ Avacado”
ReplyDeleteWell written and apt and applies to a lot of us Keep it up ....Menka Tangri
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